BIGFeels NYC
SEL Coaching
Active Listening & Following Instructions
Both inside and outside of the home, children benefit from listening skills that unlock their ability to pay attention, keep information in mind, and complete multi-step tasks successfully. These important decision-making skills for kids empower children to better participate in the world around them, even when going through big changes like starting Pre-K or being introduced to doing chores around the house.
However, it can be challenging for children to listen actively and follow instructions, especially when directions are complex, distractions are present, or they need to remember multiple steps. This doesn’t mean children “don’t care”—these are developing skills that strengthen with practice, patience, and the right support.
How Can Kids Learn To Listen & Follow Instructions?
BIGFeels NYC practices four core abilities that help children listen, remember, and follow through on instructions:
Coaching For Listening Skills & Following Instructions
BIGFeels NYC uses evidence-based activities designed to strengthen listening and instruction-following:
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Listening games and attention-building exercises
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Memory games (remembering sequences, lists, instructions)
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Multi-step task practice (recipes, crafts, building projects)
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Repetition strategies (saying instructions back, self-talk)
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Breaking down complex instructions into steps
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Distraction management techniques
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Sequential task completion with checkpoints
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Real-world instruction practice (following directions for games, activities)
We work with families to create custom strategies that honor your child's unique strengths and support their developing capacity to listen actively and follow through with confidence. Download a sample intake report or book your free consultation today:
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Taking Responsibility & Making Good Choices
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