BIGFeels NYC
SEL Coaching
Active Listening & Following Instructions
Unlocking listening skills helps children pay close attention to what they hear, keep information in mind, and complete multi-step tasks successfully.
However, it can be challenging for children to listen actively and follow instructions, especially when directions are complex, distractions are present, or they need to remember multiple steps. This doesn’t mean children “don’t care”—these are developing skills that strengthen with practice, patience, and the right support.
Skills We Teach For Active Listening & Following Instructions
Through activities and coaching, BIGFeels NYC helps children develop their capacity to listen attentively, remember what they hear, and follow through on instructions.
Children practice four core abilities that support active listening and following instructions:
Coaching For Listening Skills & Following Instructions
BIGFeels NYC uses evidence-based activities designed to strengthen listening and instruction-following:
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Listening games and attention-building exercises
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Memory games (remembering sequences, lists, instructions)
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Multi-step task practice (recipes, crafts, building projects)
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Repetition strategies (saying instructions back, self-talk)
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Breaking down complex instructions into steps
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Distraction management techniques
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Sequential task completion with checkpoints
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Real-world instruction practice (following directions for games, activities)
We work with families to create custom strategies that honor your child's unique strengths and support their developing capacity to listen actively and follow through with confidence. Download a sample intake report or book your free consultation today:
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