BIGFeels NYC
SEL Coaching
Responsible Decision Making
BIGFeels NYC empowers children to make thoughtful choices, think through problems, take responsibility for their actions, and understand consequences. With over 15 years of experience, our team uses evidence-based tools that promote lasting skills for children ages 3-10.
Responsible decision making connects to executive functioning skills like planning and problem-solving, and helps children become proactive in their everyday life.
BIGFeels NYC supports children in New York City both in-home and virtually. No diagnosis required.
Understanding Responsible Decision Making Skills
Responsible decision-making helps children make constructive and respectful choices about their behavior and relationships. These are teachable skills based in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and the latest social science. Building skills like problem-solving, ethical thinking, and being aware of consequences helps children thrive at home, in school, and with friends.
Through joyful, play-filled sessions, we empower children to:
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Think through problems step-by-step and consider different solutions
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Understand how their choices affect themselves and others
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Take responsibility for mistakes and make things right
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Plan ahead and anticipate what might happen next
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Listen actively and follow multi-step instructions
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Make ethical choices even when it's hard
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Work collaboratively with others and show leadership
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Be proactive in solving problems before they become bigger
Every child develops decision making skills at their own pace. This isn't unusual and certainly not a flaw—all children need time and tools.
We work with families to set goals and provide weekly reports with detailed updates and strategies for reinforcing learning at home.
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"BIGFeels SEL Coaching helped our daughter better understand and practice kindness, especially toward her little sister.."
— Parent of 4-year-old,
Hudson Yards, NYC
Responsible Decision Making Skill Areas
The building blocks we focus on
Our coaching targets three interconnected areas. Together, these building blocks help children make thoughtful choices, solve problems proactively, and take ownership of their actions with confidence.
Problem Solving & Planning
Thinking ahead, understanding consequences, adapting when plans change, and approaching challenges strategically.
Active Listening & Following Instructions
Paying attention, keeping information in mind, and completing step-by-step tasks with focus.
Taking Responsibility & Making Good Choices
Owning mistakes, telling the truth, understanding right from wrong, and standing up for what's fair.